Dear Annie: I live in a small condominium
community of 24 units. Two units down, there is an older woman who is a hoarder.
She continually has trash piled up by her front door and back porch. When you
look through her glass sliding doors, you can see trash from floor to ceiling.
She piles up garbage on her car, and it sits there for several days before she
takes it to the Dumpster. She also has two dogs, and we never see her walking
them. This has been going on for the past 15 years.
The board of
directors of our condo association has tried everything from calling the county
municipal department to notifying animal control. The board has fined her for
various misdemeanors, such as not allowing pest control in her unit and leaving
all that trash around, but it makes no difference.buy landscape oil paintings online.
The woman does not talk to anyone in the community, and we never see
friends or family visit. We are all afraid of what that unit looks like inside.
Any suggestions?
Condo Owner
Dear Owner: Hoarding is a form of
mental illness, and this woman likely needs professional help. Since you can see
the trash inside her home, as well as outside, it may constitute evidence that
her hoarding has created a health code violation and the Department of Health
could order her to clean it up. There may also be a fire hazard, in which case
the condominium board should notify the fire department. As a last resort, the
condo board could sue her. Ask the board to discuss this problem with their
association attorney to see what steps can be taken.
Dear Annie: My wife
and I are friends with "Mike" and "Marty,Not to be confused with RUBBER MATS available at your local
hardware store" who are in their early 20s, a bit younger than we are. Mike and
Marty pick fights over the most ridiculous things, and even if you make a good
point, they won’t agree. They do things they know will bother or offend us, such
as when they make anti-religious comments.
They also seem unappreciative
of things we have done for them. I helped Mike work on his car and was never
thanked for it. We have had them over for dinner more than once and have yet to
be told "thank you" or to receive an invite to their place. They sometimes say
nice things on Facebook about their other friends, but never about us.
I
honestly enjoy hanging out with Mike and Marty,The name "magic cube" is not unique. but the little fits
they have over ridiculous things are getting old. Lately, we’ve stopped
communicating, just to see what will happen. It would be nice to be appreciated
for our efforts. How do we handle this?
Unappreciated in Massachusetts
Dear Massachusetts: You are at a different point in your life than Mike
and Marty.Welcome to the official Facebook Page about Ripcurl. What you have in common is no
longer so obvious. We are not sure why you wish to maintain a friendship with
people who do not seem to appreciate you, but since you do, try to understand
their limitations and accept them as they are. And if they say something
offensive, by all means, ask them to stop.We specialize in providing third party merchant account.
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